Dad Kicks Entitled "Cool Girl" Out of Daughter's Birthday

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    Text - r/AmItheAsshole - Posted by u/trway21423 12 hours ago AITA for kicking out a girl from my daughter's sleepover bday party? My (34M) daughter (14F) had a sleepover b-day party last saturday, and she invited 5 girls from her school. There was this one girl that she invited who I could tell from her attitude, was a spoiled brat. When she rang the doorbell, she walked in looking down at her phone, didn't greet me or my wife, and handed me her jacket without even looking up. The whole night sh
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    Text - Anyways, towards the end of the night, my daughter was opening her gifts. SB made a comment about every single gift. (not exactly snarky, but more like she was just unimpressed) The final gift was from me and my wife, we bought her an iPhone 7 by pooling all of our remaining extra money to buy her it. the SB scoffed because she had the newest gen iPhone. I helped my daughter set up the phone with a sim card, and the rest of the night they just hung out in her room. My daughter came down a
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    Text - My daughter left the phone on the table. I grabbed my daughter's phone to see a bunch of texts going back and forth between SB and my daughter, they exchanged numbers and the convo went something like this: D "hey its me" SB "thanks for inviting me to ur lame slumber party lol, and congrats on the iphone SEVEN haha" D "what" SB: "arent u mad that ur parents and friends got u such lame gifts" SB "slumber parties are for little girls lol, but wtvs its cool" D "u dont like the party..?" SB "
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    Text - It was around 1AM and the girls were still up talking, I knocked and asked if I could speak with SB, she looked confused, I told her she needs to grab her things something came up. (I did this as to not embarrass my daughter in front of her friends). I took her downstairs and asked her to call her mom, she asked why and I said "because thats what you said right? that you wish you could go home? so go." She was tearing up a bit, and made the call. I talked w/ her mom for a bit when she cam
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    Text - I thought ab it for a bit, but her staying probably would have made it awkward for everyone, so I told her it was best if they just left. My wife said that I overreacted, and I should have just talked with SB rather than immediately kick her out, I firmly believe I taught her a good lesson that she needed to learn. It was MY DAUGHTER's bday, and I didn't want the rest of her night ruined because of some spoiled brat who was making it all about her. I guess she didn't exactly do anything w
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    Text - EmileaBluems Partassipant [1] 15.4k points · 14 hours ago NTA. How does your daughter feel about it though? trway21423 15.8k points · 12 hours ago hasn't brought anything up since, and the night of the party after SB left I could hear them laughing and giggling, so I think she's ok
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    Text - i-died-in-vietnam- Certified Proctologist [21] 3.8k points · 14 hours ago NTA, you did what your daughter couldn't and that's stand up to a bully. It will be years before she realizes that those "cool people" in high school often time grow up to be terrible people that she would never seek a relationship with outside of that high school setting. But I wouldn't let someone disrespect my home or my family
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    Text - willowwilde Partassipant [1] 5.6k points · 14 hours ago NTA! An actual hero! That self entitled brat needed someone to hold her accountable for being a bully. In time your daughter will understand this.
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    Text - elwoodpdowdsmother 2.0k points · 12 hours ago O YTA. (1) you spied on your daughter for no reason (2) you let a 14 year old girl bruise your fragile ego and pride about the gift you bought and knee jerk reacted by ominously summoning her from the party at 1am with no explanation other than something came up which very likely made this girl think something terible happened with her family (3) you childishly and angrily made her call her mom in the middle of the night and seriously said "th

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